Archive for January, 2007

Anyway..

Wednesday, January 17th, 2007

The Paradoxical Commandments

♥  People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered.

Love ‘em anyway.

  If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.

Do good anyway.

If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.

Succeed anyway.

The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.

Do good anyway.

Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.

Be honest and frank anyway.

The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds.

Think big anyway.

People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs.

Fight for a few underdogs anyway.

What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.

Build anyway.

People really need help but may attack you if you do help ‘em.

Help people anyway.

Give the world the best you have and you’ll get kicked in the teeth.

Give the world the best you have anyway.

-ANYWAY-

The Paradoxical Commandments.

   

i miSs mah moMMy…!

Monday, January 15th, 2007

After almost two weeks of grey skies, unpredictable rain n mighty strong wind… we can now feel da ray of sun again… wat a relief. this means.. there’ll be no flood again this year… wuhOoOo! shake off da blues!

( wasnt in da right mood myself… cudn keep da creative juice flowin’.. )

am just bored n  miss my mummy who’s havin her vacation in HK so much… faster come back..!

fRenSs..

Sunday, January 14th, 2007

When people say : “friends are forever” or “friends never say goodbye”. well guess wat, they lied. how come a trust we build upon nothin, those memories that were once a reality now juz a vivid image of da past.. we tot we knew each other but da fact we never know da person behind da open door…

   People come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. when u figure out which it is, u know exactly what to do.

   When someone is in ur life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need u have expressed outwardly or inwardly. they have come to assist u thru a difficulty,to provide u wit guidance n support, to aid u physically, emotionally or spiritually.. they may seem like a Godsend, n they are.. they are there for a reason u need ‘em to be.. then, without any wrong-doing on ur part or at an unconvinient time, this person will say or do something to bring da relationship to an end.

   sumtimes they die.. sumtimes they walk away.. sumtimes they act up or out and force u to take a stand. wat we muz realize is that our need has been met, out desire fulfilles, their work is done.. da prayers u sent up hav been answered and it is now time to move on.

   When people come into ur life for a season, it is because ur turn has come to share, grow or learn.. they may bring u an exprerience of peace or make u laugh.. they may teach u sumthin u’ve never done.. they usually give u an unbelievable amount of joy. believe it! it is real.. but ONLY for a season.

   Lifetime relationships teach u lifetime lessons. those things-things u muz build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.. ur job is to accept da lesson, love da person/people (anyway), n put wat u have learned to use in all other relationships n areas of ur life.

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LiFe haS TauGht mE….

Thursday, January 11th, 2007
   To trust my intuition. If something does not feel right at first, I should not be afraid to walk away from it.
To be me. I should not be afraid to disappoint others in the process. One cannot please everyone.
To be a friend to someone who is actually a friend to me. Friendship is a two-way process.
That nothing is coincidence. Although it maybe difficult to grasp at first, things do happen for a reason. In time, everything will fall into place.
To believe in miracles. All i need is to ask for it. It happens all the time but sometimes I am too blind to see it.
The older I get, the harder my heart breaks. I must learn to not give my heart to just anyone.
Words mean absolutely nothing without actions.
It is great to try and try and try again. But at times, we also have to learn to let go.
If someone wants to be with me, they will move heaven and earth to do so. I should therefore not waste my time on someone who barely moves for me.
All endings open up to new beginnings. I should therefore not spend too long mourning when I should be rejoicing exciting beginnings.
Most importantly, life taught me that it is the journey, with its twists and turns and ups and downs, that matters. Destination is only a by-product.

The New Year !

Wednesday, January 10th, 2007

i hope its not too late still to wish ” HaPPy NeW YeaR ” to us all. was real busy for da past weeks, christmas celebration n works so i didn have time to post any wishes up. and now, am bored out of my mind. yeah, boredom really kills n tats da reason am here bloggin. i’ll be freakin’ free for da whole month and da next job will be on 8th 6th feb.

   Guess i’ll pack my indecisions and start takin’ this new year off, to da places i’m supposed to be. i’m sure there’s that sumthin’ in da shade of gray that is more white than black. so, i’m all in, coz i’ve nothin’ worth losin’. this year, is da start of all da things to come. this year, i’ll take my chances for wat i cud have to get wat i want. welcome home, our dreams may or may not come true this year, but i do hope we keep da dream alive so that we will be too.