fRenSs..

When people say : “friends are forever” or “friends never say goodbye”. well guess wat, they lied. how come a trust we build upon nothin, those memories that were once a reality now juz a vivid image of da past.. we tot we knew each other but da fact we never know da person behind da open door…

   People come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. when u figure out which it is, u know exactly what to do.

   When someone is in ur life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need u have expressed outwardly or inwardly. they have come to assist u thru a difficulty,to provide u wit guidance n support, to aid u physically, emotionally or spiritually.. they may seem like a Godsend, n they are.. they are there for a reason u need ‘em to be.. then, without any wrong-doing on ur part or at an unconvinient time, this person will say or do something to bring da relationship to an end.

   sumtimes they die.. sumtimes they walk away.. sumtimes they act up or out and force u to take a stand. wat we muz realize is that our need has been met, out desire fulfilles, their work is done.. da prayers u sent up hav been answered and it is now time to move on.

   When people come into ur life for a season, it is because ur turn has come to share, grow or learn.. they may bring u an exprerience of peace or make u laugh.. they may teach u sumthin u’ve never done.. they usually give u an unbelievable amount of joy. believe it! it is real.. but ONLY for a season.

   Lifetime relationships teach u lifetime lessons. those things-things u muz build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.. ur job is to accept da lesson, love da person/people (anyway), n put wat u have learned to use in all other relationships n areas of ur life.

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2 Responses to “fRenSs..”

  1. ' KeR Yi ' Says:

    eh why got mu name there? thanks..=)

  2. VicToRiA Says:

    ah gal, i think u hv been deeply hurted by someone..
    but, believe tat there r oso gt ppl who r treat u sincerely n nvr think wanna get anything from fren.
    hope u can try to BELIEVE it..